First of all, let me say that I do not consider myself a “player.” My intentions are not to “have my cake and eat it too.” However, I have strong feelings for two women. I am not in a relationship with either of them, but there are feelings involved and both see a future with me, including marriage and children. The feeling is mutual. I love them equally, but I know that at the end of the day I can only choose one woman to share my life with. How can I decide who to be with? The last thing I want to do is break someone’s heart, however I can’t help the way I feel.
In Love With Two
Dear In Love With Two,
No matter what your intentions are, you are playing with the hearts of these two women. There is a large chance that someone’s heart will end up broken (please note that you are one of these “someones!”), but your future actions may be able to lessen the severity of that pain. The first thing you need to do is be completely honest with both of them. They deserve to know the truth so that they can decide if this is a situation that they want to be a part of. If both women still want to continue a relationship after your confession, start listening to your mind a little more. Which relationship makes more “sense”? Who do you have more in common with? You need to ask yourself a lot of questions before you make a choice, because if you make a decision that you regret, your chances of getting a second chance are slim to none.
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